disgusting or fine?
Imagine this scenario,
You and your opposite sex sibling grew up together and share a wonderful relationship (being vague here, come to the point later), lets just say from birth to about teenagehood.. then you found out that he/she is not actually blood-related to you coz your actual sibling was accidentally exchanged at birth and now the blood-related sibling is staying with u now.. (thereafter, sibling refers to the blood related one and "sibling" is the one who grew up with you).. to avoid complications, your parents brought you and ur sibling overseas and lost contact with ur "sibling".
After about 10 years, your family return from overseas and somehow (drama, drama) you bumped into her.. you know that you were intimate (sexual or not) with ur "sibling" before.. now that u know "he/she" is not blood-related, would you be able to love her romantically?
p/s: I'm not that bo-liao to come up with this scenario.. its from Autumn in My Heart, a korean series..
*edit* get the torrent files here for Autumn in My Heart (OST included)
posted by Jun @ 10:46 AM
7 Comments:
quite unclear.. do you mean being able to love the non blood- related "sibling"?
but i thought it's the other way round in the series..? haha =)
huh?
what do you mean by
'you know that you were intimate (sexual or not) with ur "sibling" before..'
if you grew up thinkin she is ur sibling how can the relationship be sexual?
anyway.. would you?
jun to xyz,
u want to watch the series again? =) hahah i have it with me..
jun to precious thoughts,
precisely.. i think the defining line for love is pretty thin.. and when you were younger, u may not be able to differentiate the love.. all u remembered was that you 2 were really close, intimate and happy..
anyway, I WOULDN'T! hahah definitely not..
you n00b. personally i dun care, if the love is mutual certainly why not.
anyway Love Story in Harvard is a waaaay better series kay! It makes u wanna studyyyy! >D
well, have u watched autumn in my heart yet? if not, that would be a biased opinion wouldn't it? =)
well.. i think it will be good if it makes u wanna love.. =) hhahah
if i grew up with my "sibling" and then later found out that that he was not blood related, it wouldn't matter. i wouldn't 'exchange' him for a blood-related sibling like its some merchandise from the store. relationships make family, not blood relation.
having said that, knowing that a guy is blood related to me- no way i would be romantically involved with that either, know him personally or not. that's just a whole different level of weirdness. not to mention unhealthily produced kids!!
fair enough about the "exchanging" part.. in the drama, 1 of the family was well-off while the other was raised in a broken family.. so there are more complications to that..
but i think u got me wrong somewhere.. i think its generally agreeable to your point "relationships make family, not blood relation", but what i'm saying is whether you could love your "sibling" romantically? how would you tell your parents that you are dating him/her, knowing that they did raise you 2 together since young..
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